SOME ADVICE THOUGH


Dear _____,

What is your problem? What the hell did you think you could accomplish by sending me this one line email? Maybe you thought if you sent me some cute one-liner, everything would be peachy between us. Give it a break, I told myself I would. It took you 6 whole days to send a apology after treating me like a worthless piece of trash, WOW. You said a bunch of mean shit which I totally did not deserve, and knowing you, you KNEW exactly what it did to me. I GOT ALL THAT FROM SOMEONE WHO WAS SUPPOSED TO BE VERY MUCH IN LOVE WITH ME.

I will not forget all that just like that. You know exactly where it went wrong in our relationship and I think it would do you a lot of good if you would just admit to it. Instead of pushing the blame on everyone else, learn to admit your own mistakes and learn to grow up like a MAN. Don't get me wrong, I wish you no harm, just the exact opposite. But I do not and cannot forgive you nor accept your INSINCERE apology at this moment.

LOVE DOES LAST FOREVER, maybe it just doesn't work that way with YOU. Ask yourself that question. And try and learn not to give promises and get into relationships when you have absolutely no intention of keeping them. It's not good for both parties. It hurt me a lot financially in my case, spent at least 5 bloody thousands on phone calls to someone who treated me like rubbish. You should've been man enough to face up to the situation and told the truth. You had plenty of time and opportunity to do that. Oh I forgot, you're not a man. :)

I hope you are happy _____, I really do. Think about what went wrong in your previous relationships, (namely the ones with _____ and with ME). Think of how you can overcome your inability to be honest, faithful and mature when you are handling relationships. (I still remember the time you asked ME to stay faithful to you, I told you I would, and I did). The thing that hurt most is, how you could turn around and bark right back at me when you are the one messing everything up.

I do wish you luck with _____ or whatever her name is, and to your future girlfriends whose hearts you'll be breaking at every port and station you go to. ( Interesting how you always happen to meet girls whose names start with the letter "L")

Some advice though :

1 - YOU DO NOT HAVE TO TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM UNLESS YOU MEAN IT.
2 - YOU SHOULD NOT TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM UNLESS YOU MEAN IT.
3 - YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ASK THEM TO MARRY YOU UNLESS YOU MEAN IT; REGARDLESS OF HOW MANY OF THEM YOU ARE ASKING AT THE SAME TIME.
4 - YOU SHOULD NOT ASK THEM TO MARRY YOU UNLESS YOU MEAN IT; REGARDLESS OF HOW MANY OF THEM YOU ARE ASKING AT THE SAME TIME.
5 - YOU SHOULD BE MORE MATURE WHEN YOU ARE ENDING THINGS OFF, YOU MIGHT NOT BE SO LUCKY ALL THE TIME IF YOU WERE TO MEET SOME VENGEFUL INDIVIDUALS. IT COULD RUIN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE AND CAREER.
6 - I UNDERSTAND IT'S HARD FOR YOU TO BE MATURE, BUT AT LEAST YOU SHOULD TRY TO, FOR YOUR OWN SAKE.

Oh yes, I think that it would totally be up to your parents if they didn't want to have any relationship with me anymore. Because last time I checked, you didn't make decisions to run their lives. If they didn't want to hear from me anymore or be my friends anymore, the decision is entirely theirs to make; NOT YOURS. I never thought I would ever have to write a Dear John letter, but guess I thought wrong. I did love you with ALL my heart and then some; I still do right now, but I guess that has got to stop. I was just too foolish and blinded by that love that I failed to see through your deceits and lies. Well John, I've said enough for tonight. I wish you well.

Love, _____

ps: By the way, I attached the saved copies of our conversations so that You have a better understanding of why I'm being so bitter and hateful.

[submitted 02/04/04]
the love letter collection